Should you remain friends with an ex?
Well, there are pros and cons to every decision made. Some pros out weigh the cons, some cons out weigh the pros. There are many factors. I think it depends on how healthy the relationship is for both parties. It should not be a selfish decision. If it stunts growth and opportunity for either party. That’s a no for me. If it is not doing anything and you want to remain friends for the sake of sexual benefits… well I think that is a no for me too. Purely because I believe it would cause confusion. Who wants that? It might keep you trapped.
I would not want that for myself, or anyone else. If someone decided to take that direction. I would hope they would make sure that they’re conscious of what they are doing, how they are feeling and able to realistically ask themselves is this what I want – and give an honest answer to that question. People become comfortable in relationships. In the beginning of a relationship you usually go into it feeling that it would last forever. And, I can understand why someone would want to hold onto that. It kind of turns into somewhat of an addiction in a sense. CRACK IS WACK!
All I am saying is… if there are no obligations between you two. Leave it alone.
Your ex is usually an ex for a reason.
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